10 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself

Lkhout, gallik : “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”
C'est vrai ! cette citation m'a poussé à lire beaucoup de success stories. Zuckerberg, Gates, ou encore Kearns, toutes ces histoires ont un point en commun : people started somewhere, had enough shit, decided it was enough shit, and started making changes. Ainsi, je me permet de lister 10 choses que vous devez arrêter de faire, pour votre propre bien :

1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2. Help yourself – Yes, help others, but help yourself too.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
3. Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
4. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
5. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
6. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart.  You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.  Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.”  It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.”  Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! 
7. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway.  Just do what you know in your heart is right.
8. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
9. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
10. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life.  Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs.  Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.